Post Date: May 21, 2025

When I Tried to Impress, I Got Ignored
Early in my consulting journey in Europe, I showed up with the perfect slides, sharp suit, polished answers.
And still… silence.
But one day, I shared a personal story—my business collapse, and what it taught me.
The room shifted.
People don’t trust perfection.
They trust position—when your story meets their struggle.
You Don’t Need a Bigger Stage. You Need the Right One.
Here’s the truth most personal brands ignore:
You can work 10x harder, market louder, post every day…
But if your brand is positioned too broadly, it drowns.
Positioning is about clarity:
- Who are you really here to help?
- What problem do you solve so well they feel relief just seeing your name?
When your position is right, trust follows naturally.
You’re not chasing attention—you’re answering a need.
The Trust-Position Link
Trust and positioning are twins.
Get one right, and the other gets stronger.
You position through:
- Storytelling that shows—not tells—your credibility
- Clear, consistent messaging across all channels
- Saying no to the wrong stage so the right one hears you better
“If you try to impress everyone, no one remembers you. But if you show up where you belong, you can’t be forgotten.”
Actionable Tip: Build Your Positioning Statement
Answer this:
“I help [specific audience] solve [specific problem] so they can [specific outcome].”
Example:
“I help early-stage founders clarify their message so they attract the right investors.”
That’s not a pitch.
That’s a trust anchor.
Now go say it—in your bio, in your posts, in your next conversation.
Conclusion: Position Before You Perform
You don’t need to perform.
You need to belong.
And once your brand stands in the right place, with the right energy and truth—
the right people start leaning in, listening, and trusting.That’s when branding becomes connection.
And trust becomes your signature